How often does your mood swell? How often do you cry? Now don't behave "The Man" or "The Modern Day Strong Woman", tell me honestly... How often do you cry?
OK.. Let me put it this way. How often you feel like crying or How often do you feel that you are crying inside yourself but there are no tears outside? Now are you getting to see the number increasing. If so, why? Why do you cry, is it because things are not the way they should be or is it because things are not the way you expect them to be? C'mon make a try.
If things are not the way the they should be, i think, we would enjoy that. Because, it gives us an issue to talk about, to proclaim that we belong to a different cadre and the things are not the way they should be cause of the lowness of the universe around us. So, it sorta makes us feel superior, makes us feel good. So no need to cry over it, right?
What about things not working out the way we wanted it to? Ahmmm.. We are in a tight corner to answer now. We may be right to claim that we are being wronged or we may be wrong to claim that. But is it worth crying over it.
Now, leaving aside how often we cry, If things aren't working our way and if we dont have a variable to control in the equation, is it not better to get existential over the whole issue and start watching it for our purpose in it.
Well, "buththikku theriyuthu, manasukku theriyalayae".